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When the heart speaks without words

 I attended a concert that reminded me why live music still matters, not for its spectacle, but for the deep connection it fosters.

The performers were the legendary Ustad Rahat Fateh Ali Khan and his son, Shahzaman Fateh Ali Khan, at the Idea Live Arena in Petaling Jaya on November 1. Although packed to the last row, the venue felt like a shrine.

It wasn’t just a performance; it was a spiritual exchange, as for the first time, he shared the stage with his son, Shahzaman, in Malaysia.

As the lights dimmed, the first notes of the harmonium cut through the murmuring crowd. Rahat, in his signature orange kurta, took his seat with the quiet authority of a man who doesn’t need introduction.

To his left sat Shahzaman, his protege and musical heir, radiating reverence and readiness.

The applause faded, and suddenly, all that remained was sound, devotion, and something ineffable that filled the space between them.

The concert opened with the soulful Bollywood number “Tu Na Jaane Aas Paas Hai Khuda”, from the movie Anjaana Anjaani, instantly warming up the audience and setting a heartfelt tone for the evening.

It was followed by “Afreen Afreen,” a song immortalised by Rahat’s uncle and guru, the great Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan.

Even before the first verse ended, the crowd was transported. The song’s poetry, written by Javed Akhtar, celebrates beauty, both divine and human.

Though I don’t speak Urdu, the tenderness in Rahat’s delivery was unmistakable.

Every “Afreen”, meaning “praise be”, felt like a benediction, a soft invocation that made even the air shimmer.

I found myself wondering how a song I couldn’t linguistically understand could still feel so intimate.

Perhaps that’s the magic of Qawwali, a form that has always aimed higher than words. Originating in Sufi shrines centuries ago, Qawwali seeks not to entertain but to elevate.

Its purpose is to bring listeners closer to the divine through repetition, rhythm, and surrender. Sitting there, among hundreds swaying in unison, I realised that even without comprehension, I was participating in that same act of devotion.

When Rahat moved into “Tere Bin Nahi Lagda”, the mood shifted from exaltation to yearning.

This was one of his first major Bollywood hits, from the film Simmba, and it carried the ache of a soul searching for something beyond itself.

The line “Tere bin main kaise jiyoon” (How can I live without you) seemed to echo in every corner of the hall.

I didn’t need translation; the longing in Rahat’s voice said everything. His singing is not about ornamentation or technical brilliance, though he has both in abundance; it’s about emotion distilled to its purest form.

What struck me most throughout the non-stop 2 ½ hour show was the interplay between father and son.

Their chemistry was unspoken yet intense, the mentor and the disciple, the bearer and the inheritor of a legacy that spans generations.

They took turns performing several songs, and at one point, I could hardly tell who was singing, their voices blended so perfectly that they sounded identical.

During several songs, their voices danced around each other like twin flames.

Shahzaman’s tone carried youthful freshness, while Rahat’s was steeped in experience, together creating something that felt both old and new.

Watching them, I realised this wasn’t merely a concert; it was continuity in motion.

Then came “O Re Piya,” from the movie Aaja Nachle and with it, silence; the kind of stillness only great music can command, reverent, heavy, and collective.

The song, one of Rahat’s most beloved performances, is essentially a plea to a distant beloved, a metaphor for the Divine in Sufi poetry.

The way his voice rose on the word “Piya”, beloved, was almost unbearable in its beauty. Around me, strangers had their eyes closed, swaying, some quietly wiping tears.

I wasn’t the only one moved by a language I couldn’t speak.

Between songs, Rahat occasionally spoke, softly, humbly, thanking the audience, invoking his uncle’s memory, and acknowledging Shahzaman’s growing artistry.

At one point, he gave Shahzaman an appreciative pat on the back for his outstanding performance. In a touching gesture of respect, Shahzaman immediately bowed and touched his father’s feet.

His humility was disarming. Here was a man whose voice had graced global stages, who had sung for Bollywood blockbusters and royal weddings alike, yet he spoke like a student of the art, not its master.

Perhaps that, too, is the Sufi way, to see oneself always in service to something larger.

The concert’s climax was “Tumhe Dillagi Bhool Jani Padegi.” The song, a classic qawwali about love, loss, and transcendence, was delivered with a rawness that silenced even the most restless in the crowd.

The tabla beats grew insistent, the chorus joined in, and Rahat’s voice soared, defiant and tender at once.

It was no longer a performance; it was an invocation.

When the final note faded, there was a long pause before applause erupted, the kind of pause born not from hesitation, but from awe. We weren’t ready to return to the ordinary world just yet.

Walking out into the night, I tried to name what I had experienced. I couldn’t. I didn’t understand the lyrics, but I understood everything they meant.

The music had bypassed intellect and spoken directly to emotion, proof that the heart has its own language, one that requires no translation.

In an age where concerts often feel like spectacles, full of lights, smoke, and choreography, Rahat and Shahzaman reminded me of something simpler: that actual music is not about performance, but presence.

It’s about the human voice as an instrument of truth, longing, and grace.

Rahat’s music endures because it reminds us that even when words fail, the heart still knows how to listen.

 

Award-winning writer Dr T. Selva is the author of the bestsellers Vasthu Sastra Guide and Secrets of Happy Living. To get a copy, WhatsApp 019-2728464. He can be reached at drtselvas@gmail.com. Facebook: Vasthu Sastra

 

The silent power beneath our feet

When we step into a home, the first contact we make is with the floor.

It supports every movement, anchors every wall, and silently bears witness to the rhythm of daily life.

Yet, in the rush to choose wall colours, furniture, or lighting, flooring is often treated as a mere design element, a matter of convenience and cost.

In the ancient science of architecture, Vasthu Sastra, however, the floor is far more than that.

It represents an essential element, the Earth, which symbolises stability, support, and grounding.

The energy that flows through a house begins here, from the ground beneath our feet.

In Vasthu philosophy, the quality of the floor reflects the quality of life its occupants experience.

A smooth, level, and bright floor allows energy to move freely, creating harmony and well-being.

Conversely, a cracked, uneven, or dark floor traps energy, symbolising instability or heaviness in the household.

The ancients were keenly aware that our surroundings mirror our state of mind. A house that is solidly grounded generates inner steadiness, just as an uneven base creates subtle restlessness.

Among all flooring materials, marble has long been the preferred choice in Vasthu-compliant homes.

Beyond its natural elegance, marble possesses qualities that harmonise both the physical and spiritual aspects of dwelling.

It is considered pure, uplifting, and serene. Walking on marble gives a sense of coolness and calm, ideal for tropical climates where temperatures soar.

This natural cooling effect is not merely physical; it also soothes the mind and emotions, helping the inhabitants feel more balanced and composed.

Places of worship and sacred spaces across the world often use marble not only for its durability but for its vibrational purity.

The reflective surface of white marble is believed to magnify positive energy and spiritual vibrations.

It embodies light, clarity, and expansion, qualities that encourage purity of thought and harmony in relationships.

Homes with marble flooring often exude a quiet grace, an understated grandeur that transcends time.

Tiles, while practical and cost-effective, do not carry the same energetic resonance as natural stone.

Most tiles are synthetic or chemically processed, and their vibration is considered lacking in the ability to move, in Vasthu terms.

They may serve a functional purpose, but lack the subtle life force that natural materials radiate.

Glossy, overly reflective tiles can also cause energy to scatter, leading to restlessness rather than calmness.

That said, modern living often demands a balance between tradition and practicality.

High-quality vitrified or ceramic tiles in soft, earthy tones can still align reasonably well with Vasthu principles, provided the design is simple, the colours are soothing, and the surface is even.

For those who cannot install marble due to budget constraints, light-toned tiles with a matte finish offer a reasonable compromise.

The colors of the floor also play a vital role in shaping a home’s atmosphere.

Vasthu encourages the use of light, expansive colours that radiate calmness and invite light into the space.

Shades such as white, off-white, cream, beige, light yellow, and soft green are all favourable. They make the interiors feel more open and peaceful.

Dark like black, blue and grey or excessively bright colours, however, absorb energy and can make rooms feel heavy or agitated.

A black or deep red floor, for instance, is discouraged as it represents stagnation and conflict. Light tones, in contrast, invite serenity, helping to reflect the natural light that is so important for maintaining energetic flow within the home.

According to Vasthu, the flooring of a house mirrors the foundation of its residents’ lives.

Just as a firm and balanced floor offers physical stability, it symbolically strengthens one’s emotional and financial footing.

A home with an even floor, where no corner dips or rises disproportionately, reflects balance and harmony in the lives of those who dwell there.

The southwest should ideally be slightly higher than the northeast, symbolising strength and protection in one’s career and family life.

Cracked or chipped flooring is considered inauspicious. It is said to disturb the flow of energy and to reflect emotional fragmentation or financial strain.

Repairing or replacing damaged tiles or marble is not just an act of maintenance; it is a gesture of restoring energetic harmony to the household.

Some of the most common mistakes homeowners make include using different levels for rooms on the same floor, which can disrupt the natural flow of energy.

A lower southwest corner, for instance, can lead to instability and a loss of authority.

Another frequent oversight is leaving broken tiles unrepaired, assuming they are minor.

In Vasthu, even a small crack can symbolically represent instability. Using too many contrasting materials or loud colours can also create energetic confusion, much like noise in a peaceful space.

Overly glossy or slippery floors, though visually appealing, are discouraged as they cause energy to “slip away.”

Vasthu prefers matte or softly polished finishes that promote a sense of steadiness underfoot.

At its core, Vasthu teaches that beauty and balance are inseparable.

The floor beneath us is not just a surface to walk on; it is a silent witness to our lives.

Every echoed laughter, every prayer uttered, and every loved one’s footstep is grounded in its quiet strength.

It reminds us that what lies beneath matters most.

When the foundation is calm, balanced, and pure, everything built upon it, both the house and the life it shelters, stands steady and serene.

 

Award-winning writer Dr T. Selva is the author of the bestsellers Vasthu Sastra Guide and Secrets of Happy Living. To get a copy, WhatsApp 019-2728464. He can be reached at drtselvas@gmail.com. Facebook: Vasthu Sastra

 

 

When a cow walks into a new home

On Friday, I witnessed a deeply symbolic and rarely seen ritual at a housewarming of a new bungalow in Johor.

Amid the chants of Vedic hymns, the fragrance of incense, and the laughter of family members, a cow and its calf were led gently into the newly built home at Country Residence in Masai.

The sight was both humbling and uplifting, a moment that seemed to bridge the ancient with the modern.

The cow, adorned with a shawl and garland of fresh jasmine and turmeric paste smeared on her forehead, walked with calm dignity, as if aware of her sacred role.

The calf followed closely, hesitating for a moment before stepping onto the freshly washed grand floor.

There was an air of reverence as the property owner, R. Nantakumar, his wife, Wijaya Selvi, and guests folded their hands and bowed slightly, not to an animal, but to what it represented: the very essence of life, purity, and sustenance.

In the Vedic tradition, the cow is not just a creature but a divine symbol of abundance.

Its presence during a housewarming is considered an invocation of Mother Earth herself, whose energies the new dwelling must align with before it becomes a true home.

According to scripture, the celestial wish-fulfilling cow embodies prosperity, compassion, and nourishment.

Bringing it into a newly constructed house marks a divine act of inviting the universe’s nurturing forces to take residence.

The calf, in turn, symbolises continuity, protection, and future generations. It is believed that their bond blesses the family with harmony, fertility, and longevity.

As the ceremony unfolded, something remarkable occurred: the cow, upon entering the main threshold, gently lowered its head, mooed softly, and urinated and dropped its dung.

There was no disturbance, no embarrassment; instead, the chief priest, Someshvarn Sivachariar, smiled and said, “Lakshmi (the goddess of wealth and fortune) has entered this home.”

This act, often misunderstood by those unfamiliar with the symbolism, is in fact one of the most auspicious signs in Hindu culture.

According to Vasthu Sastra, a home is a living organism whose energies must be purified and balanced before the family can dwell within it.

Cow urine and dung have long been regarded as natural purifiers, both spiritually and scientifically.

The ancient texts describe them as cleansing agents that neutralise negative vibrations and sanctify the space.

Modern science, interestingly, acknowledges their antibacterial properties and their role in balancing atmospheric microbes.

When a cow naturally releases urine or dung upon entering a property, it is considered a sign that the divine energy has accepted the home, blessing it with purity and prosperity.

The act signifies that the Mother Earth has been appeased and that the dwelling is ready to receive the positive flow of life.

The ritual subtly reminds us that even our most modern creations, marble floors, steel beams, and glass facades, ultimately stand upon the sacred soil of the Earth, which must be honoured.

As I watched the ceremony, I reflected on how rare it is today to see such customs performed with sincerity.

In urban life, where most people live in apartments or gated communities, bringing a live cow and calf indoors may not be feasible.

Yet, the essence of the ritual continues in adapted forms. Many priests now use symbolic substitutes such as sprinkling diluted dung and urine at the entrances and corners of the house, or applying a thin layer of the dung on the threshold before washing it away.

Some families keep a small idol or framed image of a cow and calf in the prayer room to represent the same divine energy.

Others, especially in cities, choose to express this reverence through a generous act, donating fodder, feeding cows, or contributing to a cow shelter on the day of their housewarming.

The gesture is believed to carry equal spiritual merit.

Even in modern Vasthu Sastra practice, the focus is not on ritual for ritual’s sake, but on the energy it invokes.

The cow represents the five elements — earth, water, fire, air, and space — which must exist in harmony within a property.

The sprinkling of a sacred mixture of milk, curd, ghee, dung, and urine during a house warming serves to balance these elements and consecrate the energetic core of the house.

Watching Nanthakumar’s family perform this age-old ceremony with such devotion reminded me of how ancient Indian spiritual wisdom remains relevant to this day.

The event may seem rustic to the uninitiated, but its message is insightful: a home is not truly blessed by paint or polish, but by purity of intent and respect for all forms of life.

As the cow and calf departed, leaving behind faint hoof prints and a trail of holy energy, the house seemed to come alive; no longer a structure of bricks and mortar, but a living, breathing sanctuary.

The priest concluded the ceremony by saying, “Now the Earth has accepted this home; may it shelter generations with peace and prosperity.”

Indeed, in that simple act of welcoming a cow and its calf, I saw a beautiful union of the spiritual and the natural; a reminder that true sanctity begins when we honour life in all its forms, from the smallest grain of soil to the gentle eyes of the revered cow.

 

Award-winning writer Dr T. Selva is the author of the bestsellers Vasthu Sastra Guide and Secrets of Happy Living. To get a copy, WhatsApp 019-2728464. He can be reached at drtselvas@gmail.com. Facebook: Vasthu Sastra

Clearing the mind and lighting the inner lamp

As the festival of lights falls tomorrow, homes across the country are being dusted, repainted, and adorned with lamps, rangoli, and other decorations.

Deepavali signifies the victory of light over darkness and good over evil, and inspires millions to clear away the old and welcome renewal.

But while much attention is given to cleaning and decorating our living spaces, we often overlook the need to do the same within.

The festival’s deeper message is not only about external illumination but about lighting the inner lamp by decluttering the mind and heart.

Just as we remove physical untidiness to create space for light, energy, and beauty, we must also clear away mental chaos that weighs us down.

Resentment, guilt, disappointment, and judgment can accumulate in the corners of the mind, dimming our inner radiance.

When we consciously release them, we create space for peace, gratitude, and love to take root. True celebration, then, is when both the home and the mind are in harmony, radiating light from within and without.

Forgiveness is the first step toward mental and emotional clarity, and the festive season offers the perfect atmosphere to embrace it.

It is easy to repaint a wall, but not so easy to repaint memories.

Yet, holding on to anger or hurt is like carrying a burning fire, which harms us more than the person who caused the pain.

Deepavali is a timely reminder to let go of these burdens.

To forgive does not mean to forget or excuse, but to set oneself free.

It is a conscious decision to release the hold of negativity and allow healing to take place.

A small act of pardon, whether towards another person or oneself, can rekindle inner calm and open the heart to light.

Just as the lamps we light dispel physical darkness, forgiveness dispels emotional shadows.

In the rush of preparations, buying new clothes, cooking festive meals, and visiting family and friends, it is easy to lose sight of the essence of Deepavali: appreciation.

The festival offers the perfect moment to pause and reflect on life’s blessings. Gratitude shifts our focus from what is lacking to what is already abundant.

When we take time to express appreciation to those around us, we add warmth to our relationships.

A simple “thank you” to a parent, sibling, friend, or colleague can bridge emotional distances and deepen connection.

It reminds us that love and kindness often come in quiet, unspoken ways; through daily acts of care and understanding.

Gratitude transforms ordinary interactions into sacred exchanges of goodwill.

Deepavali also marks a time of renewal, as we discard the old to make way for the new.

This applies not only to possessions but also to emotional baggage.

Many people find themselves trapped in cycles of regret, guilt, or grudges, unable to move forward. By letting go, we reclaim our freedom.

True liberation does not come from external change but from an internal shift in perception. We cannot step into the light while carrying the weight of yesterday’s hurts.

Deepavali encourages us to perform an inner ritual, to release hatreds and make peace with the past.

When we let go, we stop being defined by what went wrong and open ourselves to what can go right.

Life rarely unfolds exactly as we wish. Circumstances, relationships, and outcomes often fall outside our control.

Acceptance is the light that guides us through such uncertainty. It does not mean giving up; instead, it means understanding that everything happens for a reason, even if that reason is not yet apparent.

When we learn to accept life’s flow, we cultivate resilience. Instead of resisting reality, we adapt and grow.

Acceptance softens the edges of disappointment and brings peace to the heart.

It reminds us that while we cannot control every event, we can always choose our response.

Deepavali teaches that light and darkness coexist, just as joy and sorrow, success and struggle, form part of the same journey.

The key is to keep our inner flame steady despite the winds of change.

Every home that glows on Deepavali night tells a story of renewal and hope.

Yet, the true radiance of the festival comes not from the lamps outside, but from the light that shines within.

The outer illumination finds its meaning only when it mirrors inner clarity.

Take a quiet moment before the celebrations begin.

Sit in stillness, close your eyes, and imagine lighting a lamp within your heart.

Dedicate it to peace, to forgiveness, to appreciation, and to acceptance.

When the heart glows with these virtues, every light becomes an offering of harmony to yourself, your family, and the world around you.

Happy Deepavali!

 

Award-winning writer Dr T. Selva is the author of the bestsellers Vasthu Sastra Guide and Secrets of Happy Living. To get a copy, WhatsApp 019-2728464. He can be reached at drtselvas@gmail.com. Facebook: Vasthu Sastra

Tattooing – a sacred mark or energetic problem?

Step into any city or town, and tattoos are everywhere.

Dragons coil around arms, snakes wind across shoulders, giant wings spread across backs, delicate flowers bloom on wrists, and words are etched as personal mantras.

Once a mark of ritual and identity, tattoos have evolved into a modern form of fashion, artistry, and self-expression.

Yet when we examine this practice through the lens of Vasthu Sastra and ancient Ayurveda, questions arise: Is tattooing the body auspicious or inauspicious?

What energies do the symbols we carry forever on our skin invite into our lives?

Ancient Indian wisdom holds that the body is the temple of the soul, reminding us that tattooing is never merely skin-deep.

This perspective holds that the human form is a divine gift to be nurtured and respected, for it is through this vessel that we journey towards liberation.

Therefore, altering it with permanent markings is approached carefully because we must not harm our flawless skin.

According to Vasthu Sastra and astrologer Master Yuvaraj Sowma, it is an energetic act, for every symbol inscribed on the body resonates with its own vibration.

He said that when one carries an image or word permanently on their skin, it becomes part of their personal energy field, influencing mind, body, and spirit.

Tattooing itself is not alien to Indian tradition, as several indigenous and tribal communities saw tattoos as protective marks against the evil eye, indicators of clan identity, or symbols of devotion to a deity, he said.

Women, especially, often bore tattoos on their arms, foreheads, or legs to protect themselves from negative influences as a form of spiritual shield.

The difference lay in intent and the choice of symbols: they were always auspicious, devotional, and protective.

Spiritual sciences stress that symbols are not passive, and they carry vibrations and invite the energies they represent.

Thus, the type of tattoo one chooses is of great importance.

Sacred and auspicious tattoo symbols, such as the Aum, the lotus, the Trishul, the chakra, the peacock feather, or divine names, can strengthen one’s spiritual energy and offer protection.

They also serve as daily reminders of devotion and higher purpose.

However, it is generally not encouraged to inscribe divine images or holy symbols on the body, as we live in a material world and must remain mindful not to overindulge or overexpose ourselves to spiritual energies in ways that may create imbalance.

Conversely, tattoos depicting wild or aggressive images such as dragons, snakes, scorpions, skulls, or ferocious animals like lions and tigers tend to carry darker vibrations.

They can subtly stir aggression, restlessness, or inner turmoil within the wearer, and even affect the energy of those in their presence.

For instance, the dragon, a typical symbol in Eastern cultures, represents fiery, untamed energy that can disrupt inner harmony.

By inscribing these images on the body, one aligns with their energies, whether consciously or not.

Over time, they may find these qualities subtly influencing their thoughts, moods, and relationships, leading to a problematic life.

In Ayurveda, the science of longevity, the skin is regarded as far more than a physical covering; it is a living network of vital energy points.

Jeevana Ayurveda Centre Chief Physician Dr. C. D. Siby said that piercing or tattooing near these points can disrupt the natural flow of prana (life force) and potentially impact one’s health.

He said ancient scriptures caution against inflicting unnecessary injury to the body, as it depletes the subtle essence that nurtures immunity, vitality, and spiritual lucidity.
Hence, he said, tattooing is not merely an external adornment; it also influences the invisible energy field that sustains our inner balance.

Many ask whether carrying specific images on the body can invite backlash. The answer lies in the principle of resonance: like attracts like.

A person adorned with fierce or violent imagery supports their aura with those very vibrations.

This may manifest as inner agitation, attract struggle, conflict in relationships, disharmony, emotional upheaval, or even disturbances in their environment.

On the other hand, tattoos inscribed with divine names, yantras, or auspicious motifs can act as protective shields, much like a talisman one wears around the neck.

The difference is that these are not removable, and hence require careful consideration before they are chosen.

Ultimately, what matters most is the intent behind tattooing.

If done as an act of vanity, rebellion, or aggression, it risks lowering one’s vibrations.

If offered as a gesture of devotion, protection, or identification with the divine, it may be supportive.

But scripture reminds us that the highest reverence we can give to the body is to keep it pure and unaltered, recognising it as the temple of the soul.

To adorn it with temporary marks like sandalwood paste, or mehndi, is celebrated; to permanently alter it is discouraged unless done with a revered purpose.

For those who later realise a tattoo carries inauspicious or unsettling energy, there are both physical and spiritual ways to address it.

Modern dermatology offers options such as laser removal, surgical excision, or reworking cover-ups that replace the design with auspicious symbols or hallowed geometry.

In spiritual traditions, some practitioners urged cleansing rituals, such as chanting mantras, performing a fire ritual, or taking a saltwater bath, to neutralise the vibrations and restore harmony.

Our ancestors were mindful of every symbol, colour, and image they brought into their homes and onto their bodies.

Perhaps it is time we, too, approach tattoos not just as art, but as holy seals that either harmonise or disturb the temple we inhabit.

 

Award-winning writer Dr T. Selva is the author of the bestsellers Vasthu Sastra Guide and Secrets of Happy Living. To get a copy, WhatsApp 019-2728464. He can be reached at drtselvas@gmail.com. Facebook: Vasthu Sastra

 

 

“The human body is a sacred vessel for our journey toward liberation and must be treated with respect. Marking it with symbols of aggression or darkness can disturb inner harmony.
What we etch upon our skin, we invite into our energy and our life.” – Dr T. Selva

https://www.dailyexpress.com.my/news/268341/tattooing-a-sacred-mark-or-energetic-problem-/

 

Decluttering the home, renewing the spirit

 In just a fortnight, Indian homes will glow with the spirit of Deepavali, as families prepare to welcome the Festival of Lights with joy and devotion.

Streets will glow with the shimmer of oil lamps, homes will be decorated, and the fragrance of sweets and curries will waft through kitchens.

But before the lamps are lit on Oct 20th, another vital ritual takes place, the age-old practice of cleansing one’s home and discarding the old to welcome the new.

Deepavali is not just about external brightness; it is about clearing away darkness in every form, physical, emotional, and spiritual.

This begins at home, quite literally, with an energetic sweep of the living space.

Families scrub, repaint, and reorganise their homes, giving a sense of freshness and vitality.

Alongside, cupboards are opened, shelves dusted, and the question arises: what should we do with the old and used items we no longer need, especially clothing and personal belongings like wallets and purses?

Discarding worn-out items is not merely an act of cleaning; it is symbolic of letting go of stagnant energy.

Vasthu Sastra emphasises that old, torn, or unused belongings trap vibrations of the past.

They act as energetic blocks, preventing new prosperity and good fortune from flowing in.

Deepavali thus becomes a perfect opportunity to release these items and make space for renewal.

Old clothes, in particular, are often accumulated in cupboards year after year.

Some are faded, others no longer fit, and a few may be sentimentally retained. But when clothes lose their freshness, they also lose their ability to energise the wearer positively.

Wearing dull or torn clothes is said to diminish confidence and attract negativity.

Hence, clearing them out is not only hygienic but also spiritually uplifting.

This leads us to a central question: Is it better to donate old clothes to the poor, or should they be disposed of altogether?

From a righteousness living perspective, donating is always encouraged when the items are in good, wearable condition.

Offering clothes to those in need, particularly before a major festival, brings joy and dignity to the recipients.

Imagine the smile on a child’s face when they wear a clean shirt or dress, or the warmth felt by someone receiving a sari for Deepavali; such acts carry tremendous positive energy.

In the language of karma, this becomes a merit, a good deed that blesses both the giver and the receiver.

However, one must also exercise discernment. Torn, badly stained, or unusable clothes should not be passed on in the name of charity.

Giving away unfit items is not an act of generosity, but rather a burden on another.

Such clothes are best recycled, repurposed as cleaning rags, or disposed of in a respectful manner.

Many traditions hold that the highest form of clothing donation during auspicious festivals like Deepavali is not old but new attire.

Buying new clothes and giving them to the less fortunate uplifts the spirit of the joyous event.

After all, Deepavali is about renewal, and what better way to help someone feel included in the celebration than to give them something new?

This principle is echoed in scriptures and customs: when you give, give your best.

Such giving creates lasting impressions of joy, and the karmic benefit is believed to multiply many times over.

If one can afford it, donating new clothes alongside used but good-quality items creates a beautiful balance of compassion and dignity.

Now, what about old wallets and purses?

These items are more than just carriers of cash and cards. Used wallets are believed to hold the energy of wealth.

A worn-out or torn wallet is thought to represent stagnation or loss of financial flow.

Holding on to them could symbolically mean holding on to financial obstacles.

The best way to deal with an old wallet is to retire it respectfully.

First, ensure it is empty. Any coins or small notes should be given to charity before being discarded into the sea, as money should never be thrown away.

When acquiring a new wallet, it is considered auspicious to place a small coin, a grain of rice, or a symbol of prosperity, such as a Lakshmi Goddess or the Kuber wealth yantra, inside before using it. This act invites fresh financial energy.

In Vasthu Shastra, imagery carries energy, and every picture or sculpture in a home influences the vibrations of the space.

A bodiless image of an animal, deity, or human figure is considered inauspicious because it represents incompleteness, disconnection, and imbalance.

Such images are not seen as decorative but rather as carriers of fragmented energy.

As the countdown to the Festival of Lights starts, approach it mindfully and avoid decorating your homes with things that do not benefit the family.

 

Award-winning writer Dr T. Selva is the author of the bestsellers Vasthu Sastra Guide and Secrets of Happy Living. To get a copy, WhatsApp 019-2728464. He can be reached at drtselvas@gmail.com. Facebook: Vasthu Sastra

 

When music speaks beyond words

Music has an extraordinary way of breaking barriers of language, culture, and background.

It reaches directly into the heart, bypassing the need for explanation.

I was reminded of this truth on Wednesday (September 24) when I attended Diljit Dosanjh’s Aura Tour concert at the Axiata Arena in Bukit Jalil, Kuala Lumpur.

The Punjabi superstar, who has become an international phenomenon, delivered an electrifying performance that left an indelible impression on me, not just as entertainment but as a deeply healing and uplifting experience.

I found myself swept into a crowd of 15,000 people at the indoor stadium, and the air was electric even before the lights dimmed.

Anticipation hung heavy, fans waved flags, and the hum of conversation gave way to cheers the moment the stage lit up.

Then, with a burst of sound and light, Diljit Dosanjh strode onto the stage, turbaned, smiling, and radiating an energy that instantly connected him to everyone in the hall.

I will admit this at the outset: I do not understand Hindi or Punjabi. And yet, that night it did not matter.

The lyrics might have been lost to me, but the music was not.

Each beat, each melody, each rise in tempo went straight to the heart.

Music, I realised once again, is a universal language. It doesn’t demand translation; it simply demands to be felt.

From the opening number to the last, Diljit had the audience on their feet. People clapped, swayed, and sang at the top of their lungs.

Some even climbed onto chairs, swept away by the rhythm, and refused to let their bodies remain still.

The songs were not only entertaining but also healing.

Their cheerfulness, energy, and sheer vibrancy dissolved the stresses of everyday life.

By the second song, I could sense myself smiling unconsciously, as if the music itself had reached in and flicked on a light within.

What makes Diljit unique is the range of music he offers.

His repertoire spans Punjabi pop and bhangra, featuring infectious beats that are designed to make people dance, laugh, and celebrate.

He also has a softer side, singing romantic ballads that capture love, longing, and heartbreak with sincerity.

Beyond entertainment, his music carries deeper messages of cultural pride and identity.

Tracks like Main Hoon Panjab celebrate the spirit of Punjab, reminding people of their roots, language, and resilience.

At times, his songs touch on spirituality and social values, expressing gratitude, humility, and respect for women.

One moment, the crowd is bouncing in joy to a bhangra number; the next, they are swaying to a heartfelt ballad, and then they stand in awe as he belts out a declaration of cultural pride. It is a rollercoaster of emotions, stitched together by his warm presence and undeniable charisma.

The production in Kuala Lumpur was nothing short of spectacular. Blazing lights, dynamic visuals, dances and pounding beats transformed the stadium into a pulsating universe of sound and colour.

But behind the spectacle, what struck me most was Diljit himself.

Despite his superstar aura, he came across as approachable and humble, often bantering with the audience between songs.

There was warmth in his voice, a sincerity that reminded us that beyond the fame stood a man deeply connected to his roots and people.

He paused to salute the Indian flag, which was waved proudly by his fans from India, then clasped his palms in a gesture of prayerful gratitude before prostrating and kissing the stage as a mark of appreciation.

As the night progressed, I found myself reflecting on the deeper role music plays in our lives. Beyond entertainment, it is a balm. It heals. It reminds us of our shared humanity.

In spiritual gatherings I have attended, I have seen how collective chanting can raise vibrations, uplifting everyone present.

At Diljit’s concert, although the setting was modern and the rhythms contemporary, the essence remained the same.

Music had turned strangers into companions, uniting them in joy, love, and rhythm.

Then came the finale. The opening notes of Main Hoon Panjab filled the stadium, and the reaction was immediate.

The song’s title translates to “I am Punjab,” a bold declaration of pride and identity.

It is more than a song; it is an anthem.

For Diljit, it symbolises connection to his heritage, his turban, his mother tongue, and the Land of the Five Rivers.

For his fans, it is a reminder of resilience, belonging, and cultural pride.

As he sang it, the stadium reverberated with applause and emotion.

The audience, many of them Punjabis living far from home, sang along with tears in their eyes.

Even though I did not know the lyrics, I felt the weight of their meaning.

It was a moment where music transcended entertainment and became testimony, a declaration of selfhood and roots.

Watching Diljit raise his hand and sing Main Hoon Panjab was to witness an artist who never forgets where he came from, even as he shines on global stages.

Walking out of the stadium that night, the echoes of his songs still rang in my ears.

But more than the sound, it was the feeling that lingered.

The concert reminded me of the vital role music plays in our lives.

It lifts us when we are low, it heals wounds we often overlook, and it connects us in ways few other things can.

I may not understand Hindi, but I understood Diljit Dosanjh.

I understood the joy he shared, the pride he carried, and the healing he offered through his art. That is the power of music, it speaks when words cannot.

It tells us we belong, that we are not alone, and that in the end, rhythm and melody are as essential to the human spirit as breath itself.

That night in Bukit Jalil, music reminded me of its most incredible gift: it is not merely heard; it is felt.

And when it resonates, as it did during Diljit Dosanjh’s Aura Tour concert, it electrifies, heals, and lingers long after the final note fades.

 

Award-winning writer Dr T. Selva is the author of the bestsellers Vasthu Sastra Guide and Secrets of Happy Living. To get a copy, WhatsApp 019-2728464. He can be reached at drtselvas@gmail.com. Facebook: Vasthu Sastra

Why your home deserves a name

A house is more than bricks, mortar, wood, and paint.

It is the heartbeat of a family, the stage upon which the joys and sorrows of life unfold.

For this reason, ancient traditions across cultures have regarded a house as a living entity, infused with energy and deserving of reverence.

In Vasthu Sastra, the home is viewed as a body filled with prana (life force).

In Christian and Islamic wisdom, it is a sanctuary for divine grace. In Chinese philosophy, it is a vessel for chi (life energy).

Within these traditions lies a timeless belief: a house should not remain nameless.

Just as a newborn child receives a name aligned with auspicious vibrations, a home too is given an identity that shapes its character and destiny.

A street address may satisfy practical needs, but a house name offers something more profound; it becomes a blessing, a prayer, and a reminder of what the family aspires to create within its walls.

In Vasthu Sastra, naming a home is not a superficial exercise but a conscious act of aligning it with prosperity, health, and peace.

Words carry energy. When spoken or displayed, they vibrate into the atmosphere, influencing the people who live there.

This is why names such as Shanti Nivas (Abode of Peace), Ananda Illam (Abode of Joy), or Mangala Illam (Auspicious House) are favoured.

Such names are not mere labels; they become mantras at the threshold of the home.

Every visitor who reads them unconsciously affirms those blessings.

The family, too, seeing the name daily, is reminded of the values it represents.

Over time, the vibration of the name helps create a harmonious atmosphere within the household.

A house without a name is not unlucky; it still has its energy and address.

But naming it with intention adds a layer of identity and sacredness that elevates the dwelling from a structure to a sanctuary.

Why should homes not be named after Gods?

In many Hindu homes, it is common to see names like Lakshmi Illam, Krishna Nivas, or Hanuman Illam.

Such names express devotion and are considered auspicious. By dedicating the home to a deity, families invite divine protection and blessings.

Yet, ancient wisdom reminds us of a subtle distinction: a home is sacred, but it is not a temple.

Temples are meant to carry the intense vibration of deities and collective worship, while homes are spaces where the rhythms of daily life, eating, sleeping, learning, and working must flow alongside prayer.

For this reason, Vasthu recommends choosing names that embody the qualities of the divine rather than the deity directly.

Instead of Hanuman Illam, which gives the impression of a temple, one might choose Veera Illam (House of Courage), reflecting Hanuman’s attribute.

Instead of Durga Bhavan, one could select Shakti Nivas (Abode of Strength).

This way, the home retains its identity as a family residence while still radiating divine energy.

However, it is not wrong to dedicate a house to a beloved deity if done with humility and devotion.

The guiding principle is balance: let the home remain a nurturing space while also being spiritually blessed.

Another practice that occasionally arises is naming a home after a spouse, most often a wife. On the surface, this is a touching gesture; an expression of love, honour, and gratitude.

The spouse is often the one who nurtures the household, turning a house into a home.

Naming it after a spouse immortalises that contribution and reflects the family’s affection.

From a Vasthu and energy perspective, however, such naming ties the house’s identity strongly to the individual.

This can bring harmony if the relationship is stable and the love is enduring. But if life changes, through disagreements, separation, or bereavement, the name may carry unintended emotional weight.

Traditionally, homes were not named after individuals but after universal blessings: peace, joy, prosperity, and health.

These qualities transcend generations and remain meaningful no matter who resides in the house.

Modern families, however, may choose personal names out of sentiment.

A balanced approach is to combine both, honouring the spouse while invoking auspicious qualities.

For example: Meera Ananda Illam (Meera’s House of Joy) or David Grace Villa.

This way, the house reflects both love and timeless blessings.

Whether naming a home after a deity, a spouse, or a divine quality, the underlying principle is intention.

A name should uplift, bless, and affirm life.

Names that invoke sorrow, illness, death, arrogance, or conflict are discouraged, as they carry vibrations that can unsettle the household.

Instead, names should celebrate peace, prosperity, harmony, faith, and love.

In essence, a house name is more than decoration at the entrance; it is a daily prayer.

It tells the world, and reminds the family, what the home stands for.

It is a silent guardian, a constant invocation of grace.

So, when you choose a name for your home, choose carefully.

Ask yourself: What vibration do I want my house to carry? What blessing do I wish for my family?

The answer will guide you to a name that turns your dwelling into a sanctuary, not just for you but for generations to come.

 

Award-winning writer Dr T. Selva is the author of the bestsellers Vasthu Sastra Guide and Secrets of Happy Living. To get a copy, WhatsApp 019-2728464. He can be reached at drtselvas@gmail.com. Facebook: Vasthu Sastra

 

Why T-Junction properties must be avoided

The orientation and position of a house to surrounding roads play a significant role in determining the flow of energy into the space.

One of the most commonly advised warnings in both Vasthu Sastra and Feng Shui traditions is to avoid homes or buildings located directly facing a T-junction or Y-junction.

To the untrained eye, such properties may appear attractive, often with a broad, open view and seemingly easier accessibility.

But energetically, they are highly vulnerable. In Vasthu Sastra, the road that ends at the front of the house is seen as an energy assault, where fast-moving vigour is forced directly into the property.

It’s likened to an arrow aimed at the heart of the home. In Feng Shui, it is referred to as a “poison arrow”, which brings cutting, harsh, and disruptive vibrations into the building.

Homes that sit at the mouth of a T-junction are exposed to unfiltered, aggressive energy from the road.

It does not matter whether the home is facing 100 per cent, 50 per cent or 20 per cent because the effects are similar.

This constant energetic bombardment can disturb the balance of the home and affect its residents in multiple ways.

From my observations, occupants of such homes often face health problems such as fatigue, anxiety, insomnia, or recurring illness, including terminal health issues.

Financial instability where money flows in but disappears rapidly, or income gets blocked unexpectedly.

Emotional disturbances leading to arguments, restlessness, or a general lack of peace and accidents or mishaps, particularly with vehicles or legal complications.

What makes matters worse is that T-junction properties usually lack any natural buffer, like no trees, structures, or landscape features, to slow or soften the incoming energy.

The main door becomes the first and only point of contact for all that the road channels: speed, noise, stress, and even unresolved collective emotions.

Many people think that if a property faces a T-junction, the ill effects in Vasthu can be “fixed” by moving the main door to one side.

Unfortunately, this is a misunderstanding. The problem lies not with the door’s position, but with the entire property’s orientation.

When a road runs directly towards the building like an arrow aimed at its heart, it channels harsh, high-speed energy straight into the plot.

This impact affects the whole property, not just the doorway.

Even if you shift the main entrance to a corner, the land and structure still face the spearing road, and the constant flow of aggressive energy continues to disturb the occupants.

Apart from energetic concerns, there is also the psychological impact. A house that faces a T-junction constantly receives the visual message of a dead-end.

Over time, this can affect the mindset of the dwellers. Feelings of being stuck, going nowhere, or facing constant obstacles may slowly take root, even if life appears normal on the surface.

Similarly, a Y-junction, while slightly less severe, still causes energy to split before it reaches the house, leading to confusion, scattered thoughts, and difficulty in decision-making among residents.

So, what can be done?

For those who already live in T-junction homes and cannot relocate immediately, certain remedial measures can help mitigate the ill effects, although they are not foolproof.

Erecting a protective barrier such as a row of tall plants, a solid gate, or a wall to deflect energy.

Placing sacred objects or symbols at the main entrance, such as a Lord Ganesha statue, and burying Vasthu Yantras in the eight corners of the plot can help reduce the impact.

While these remedies can offer temporary relief, the underlying energetic challenge often remains.

This is why traditional texts consistently advise that, if possible, one should avoid purchasing, building, or renting a home that directly faces a T-junction.

A T-junction home may seem practical or affordable, but the hidden cost is often paid in discomfort, disharmony, or depletion over time.

Therefore, before investing in a property, whether for living or business purposes, it is wise to assess not just the location but also its energetic alignment.

A home should be a place where energy nourishes, not one where it constantly drains.

In conclusion, the best protection is prevention. And when in doubt, always turn to ancient wisdom to guide your modern choices.

 

Award-winning writer Dr T. Selva is the author of the bestsellers Vasthu Sastra Guide and Secrets of Happy Living. To get a copy, WhatsApp 019-2728464. He can be reached at drtselvas@gmail.com. Facebook: Vasthu Sastra

When beauty becomes a blessing

Beauty is not confined to what meets the eye, a truth echoed across many spiritual and philosophical traditions.

Often, we sense something more: a vibration, a presence, an essence that lingers.

True beauty reveals itself subtly: in the quiet glow of someone’s eyes, the gentleness of a smile, or the stillness they radiate, like an invisible perfume.

In both Vedic and Buddhist teachings, every individual is believed to radiate an aura, a subtle energy field reflecting their inner state.

Those who embody compassion, refinement, and inner harmony vibrate at a higher frequency.

In their presence, we feel uplifted. Their energy can harmonise our own, inspire positive thoughts and emotions, and even open pathways to improved well-being, good fortune, and spiritual evolution.

The science of Tantra teaches that waking beside a woman or being in the presence of a person who radiates calm and love is akin to awakening beside Shakti.

This divine feminine energy animates the cosmos.

Such moments, sages say, can spark heightened awareness, ignite creativity, and even alter the course of one’s destiny.

The scriptures speak of qualities like purity, harmony, and luminosity.

When the mind is still tender from sleep, beholding beauty uplifts the prana, the life force.

Vasthu Sastra notes: “What the eyes behold in the first hour, the heart carries all day.”

Simply being in the company of those with radiant, refined energy can cleanse the emotional and spiritual field.

To dwell with the glowing is to remember one’s own light.

Across traditions, beauty is not merely pleasure, it is medicine.

Remarkably, modern science confirms what the ancients knew: seeing something beautiful, especially the face of a loved one, reduces stress, releases dopamine, boosts immunity, and enhances emotional well-being. In every sense, beauty heals.

Yet wisdom traditions never fail to include one essential truth: true beauty uplifts.

It must be pure, gentle, and nourishing.

Outer allure may captivate the eyes, but the soul’s quiet radiance leaves a lasting impression. The Buddha captured this perfectly: “The face is a mirror of the heart. When the heart is kind, the face becomes luminous.”

During my recent trip to Vietnam, I recall meeting a woman at a pilgrimage site who did not conform to conventional notions of beauty.

Yet people turned to her as if drawn by an invisible light.

A monk beside me whispered, “She is beautiful because her thoughts are calm.”

Perhaps all ancient wisdom points in the same direction: beauty is not to be possessed or pursued as a trophy.

It is a spiritual invitation, a glimpse into grace itself.

So, the next time you wake beside someone whose presence fills you with peace, offer a silent thank you.

In that quiet instant, you have received more than comfort; you have been blessed by the whisper of timeless beauty, a gift that elevates the heart, nourishes the soul, and lights your path forward.

To encounter true beauty in a person, a moment, or a sacred place is to receive a silent blessing from the cosmos.

It is a gentle reminder that divinity moves among us, inviting the heart to awaken and the soul to remember its source.

 

Award-winning writer Dr T. Selva is the author of the bestsellers Vasthu Sastra Guide and Secrets of Happy Living. To get a copy, WhatsApp 019-2728464. He can be reached at drtselvas@gmail.com. Facebook: Vasthu Sastra